Age…oh, that thing!

We, meaning everyone not just the ladies, simply can’t get away from that cursed 3-letter word, or would you prefer that other 3-letter word which usually accompanies with age?
Let’s see, at 20, we’re just starting life on our own; by 30, we’re settling in our ways with life; then to 40, we might feel as though we’ve truly accomplished everything but status changes – divorced, widowed, stages of separation, empty nest; and at 50, are we befitting on survival or grasping ‘the bull by the horns’?
You know, becoming older doesn’t necessarily mean life has come to end. There’s nothing you can do in changing time; so why change the inevitable? What is the use in running away. What is so bad facing half a century? You have experienced a lot which means there is so much to share.
Embrace in who you are and learn about how to accept into who you can become!
Ladies, ask yourself this question: Do I really have to spend so much money for Botox treatments, augmentation, tanning booths into looking younger?   Do these limited time fixes actually satisfy my personal needs or society’s vision of what I should look like.
When I share my age, I say the double digit proudly because how I feel from the inside reflects my outside. Then the next question asked, “How do you do it?” The curious female ages from 20-50+ are referring ‘it’ as traits of appearing youthful, being energetic, staying in shape … among other things.
I’ll openly admit as I confess when speaking of myself, my tone is modest vanity (because most of us has a certain degree of vanity).  There are only two things I’d change about myself which doesn’t require expensive surgery: altering the texture of my hair and slimming my thighs, anything else involves common sense.
So, step one is START ACCEPTING your age, it’s you! You can’t change that nor force turning back time, why? You should be living in the moment! I finally realized my potential when after a breakup from a bad relationship this occurred when I was early-to mid 40s.  The pinnacle certainly didn’t happen overnight, again another soon to be written topic, but the point is: Come to terms with your annual turning point.
Once you’ve accomplished the act of acceptance, then the rest will follow.

By Kaye,