MWN's Top 10 Reasons Y Ask the Man
Some described
them as the beings from planet Mars, others describe them as a species of the
carnivores but regardless of how you refer to them, they have made you ask at
least a dozen times; Why they think the way they do? Why they do some of the
things they do? And where they get the logic behind some of their actions? I
know, I so don't need to get you started. Lol (laugh out loud). Have you ever
felt like you totally just don't get men? If this sounds like you and you have
heard yourself discussing your similar frustrations with your female friends,
only to find they are just as confused as you. Then, MWN feels your pain and
has just what you need, "Ask the
Man". It's a section devoted to assisting women navigate through the
often traitorous and confusing waters of a man's mindset. The section is
answered by a man, anonymously. Now,
before you start rolling and twisting your looks, MWN would like to give you
their top ten reasons why you need a male's perspective and why you should "Ask the Man", and hear what
he has to say. "Ask the Man"
Because....
10). You have tried it your way and it has not
worked. How many times will you pass the same point on the carousel before
realizing that something has to change? You put on a pretty convincing front,
but if you are honest with yourself, you know there are some things that unless
it is pointed out by someone else, you may never see. "Ask the Man" is that different perspective.
9). Your girlfriends solutions aren't working. They
hold your hand when you need it and are there to give a shoulder when the tears
start to flow but there advice don't bring you the clarity you'd hoped it
would. Even though you are thicker then
thieves and have vowed to ride or die together, when it comes to men, it takes
a man to understand another man. Otherwise, it is just their best guess.
8). Being Single by Choice or by Default is
Still Single. As much as some woman claim to be single by their own choice,
the truth is they avoid men because they don't want to take the time to learn
how to get along with them. If you've
been looking for an instruction manual, good luck finding it but "Ask the Man" can supply you
with a study guide so you don't have to be alone because you don't know how to
pick or create a successful relationship.
7).
Relationships Require Work. You have
to be willing to study something to use it well or get along well with it. We
will help you with your (OJT) on the job training but you have to be willing to
put in the time and effort.
6). We Believe in YAHOO. (You Always Have
Other Options). When in the middle of a storm, it is often quite hard to see
the simple options to get out of the path of destruction. "Ask the Man" provides a larger view of the big picture
and additional options that are available.
5). The Difference Between Use and Abuse Can
Sometimes Be Grey. Sex, laughter,
seriousness, games, and toys all have their importance and place. The unconscious
use or ill use of any use becomes abuse. "Ask
the Man" will teach you how to be balanced.
4). The Blind Can't Lead the Blind. "Ask the Man" teaches from
proven success not trumped up opinion from failed attempts.
3). We Believe in Bluntness. Although you
might not get the answer that you want or that you are looking for, it is the
one you may need. It won't be sugar coated or watered down. Sometimes you just
need to be told the hard honest truth so you can through or past some things.
2). We are not Bias. We don't do favorites.
It's not about man bashing or womanizing. It's about getting to the root
problems and addressing them. No time for games or trying to get browny points.
It takes two to make a couple and it takes two to ruin or cause a relationship
to succeed. And there is always things both sides can change and improve.
1). We Teach the Basics. Learning where to
start is essential. Many times we try and start with solid food when we have
not grasp how to handle milk yet. "Ask
the Man" will
focus on lessons understandable enough for everyone to apply them.
If you
could use relationship advice or you have a subject that you believe "Ask the Man" could shade some light on, consider writing and
getting a man's perspective. You can contact "Ask the Man" at maturewomannow@gmail.com. Please use aliases
names upon submission.
